I will move back to Peninsula and so do my husband. A thousand blessing and indescribable, it happened unexpectedly and we are so grateful. Soon, we will saying goodbye to Borneo.
There is a friend of ours, pengantin baru, bunting pelamin, yang nak tengok2 dan survey rumah yang kami sewa sekarang ni. Sebabnya rumah yang mereka duduki sekarang ini sangat kecik, mahal sewanya, siling rendah, tiada barrier antara living room dan sinki dapur, dan sangat panas. The wife ni masa pregnant 9 bulan ni dia sangat kepanasan duduk dalam rumah tu, sampai husbandnya belikan aircond. Tapi still no avail. Nak pindah rumah so bakal anak mereka tak la lemas kepanasan, according to them. To cut the story short, they agreed to rent this house and they will move in by January 2013. I made some cake to serve them, because our home now is a mess, swamped with boxes. We chit-chatted little bit about neighbours, about home defects and so on.
I and the wife talked about her pregnancy, tunggu masa melahirkan. I rubbed her belly and said, "Oh your belly is cute, your body is not expanded much. It is a girl?"
"Yes, we did the scan and doctor confirmed it is a girl!"
I rubbed her belly again, "And that's why your belly is cute. You are not fat either, and your face is not swollen much"
She smiled but her husband interuppted, "Alah banyak lemak tu!"
She stunned and making a face. I on the other hand suddenly possessed a mulut bertih Mak Joyah to cover the awkwardness. Her husband tasted the cake I made.
He said, "OMG this is so sweet. My tooth aches"
I replied, "Indeed, I want to clear out all of our food stocks so I pour all of the sweetener."
And both of them raised their arse to go back home, and the husband said, "Thanks for the cake. Manis sangat kek ni, macam orangnya".
I just want to shut him up, "Alah kan orang laki suka makan manis2.."
After they left, my husband repeated the saying, "manis macam orangnya.." to tease me. I asked him if he is jealous about the 'sweet thingy', he admitted he is jealous and can't believe it happened. I asked him about the 'fat thingy (pasal lemak)', explained to him that I don't want him to hear that so that I become mulut bertih. He heard it all but pretended like he 's a deaf with a purpose not to humiliate the wife.
My husband wondered,"I don't know what is the feeling of his wife, heard his husband undermine her by saying about 'fat' in front of other woman, and to add the salt, her husband praise another woman in front of her. I can't imagine."
Me too. I can't imagine if my husband did so. So far Alhamdulillah husband never do that to me. If he don't satisfies with my appearance, he will inform me and tell me his opinion. I never receive any embarassing remarks from him in front of others.He is honest, he never like other man saying, "I'm okay if you fat, I accept you as the way you are"...No my husband not like that. He concerns on my appearance. He always sent me to spa or salon for facial, sauna or hair treatment. He willingly pull out any acne or blackhead if they appear on my skin..And the best thing, he promise to send me to slimming treatment to treat my 'spare tyre' next month. OMG I can't believe this, this is the best anniversary gift. eh kantoi terpecah rahsia hadiah anniversary.kih kih.
If you wonder how his wife is look like, let me give the surface decription.
She is short, have dark skin and quite rotund.
But I still can't imagine how blatantly the husband made that kind of remarks. I still can't accept that kind of temerity. I may not a child-bearer for now but I'm blessed with a husband, a real husband.
Remember this friend , Rui that I wrote here? That she always said that she want to introduce her children to me, or should I say she want to show off her offspring to me?
Um..actually she always wanna meet me. But I always make excuses. Frankly I don't want to see her. I choose not to meet her because I don't want to be hurt.
However, one day I have no excuse anymore. We made a deal that we will met at Starbucks. I arrived Starbucks but I didn't saw her, so I and husband decided to have a lunch at Kenny Rogers. She replied saying like she arrived at the mall. I texted her that I will joined her afterwards at Starbucks. After lunch, we waited for her for freaking fu*king 4 hours!
She called me then, and I asked her about her plan. She, as I expected, explained that she at the hotel and if I want to see her, I have to wait another extra hours at Starbucks or wait until her kids woke up from sleep. She whined, "Ada anak susah tau!"..(eleh macam kau sorang ada anak). Or I can met her at hotel.
I'm so furious but decided that is the last time I met her. Last time. No more.
I went to the hotel, and as expected she just want to show off to me that she is so rich and can afford to spend a big room to accomodate her kids and her maid. When she informed me the hotel name, I told her that I will met her there because I wanna go back home to pack our boxes. She asked me then, "Do you know this hotel?"
OMG do you think that I never can afford that kind of hotel room or I am so kuno never been to hotel..
I arrived there but husband still furious don't want to join me to meet her. She introduced her kids, her husband and her maid to me. Okay. And then what? She said she want to know updates from me and asked about some of my friends. Yeah there are my friends who still single and still childless, but when I told her about that, she made the frowing and annoying face that I cannot imagine, make me want to puke!
"You rent a flat or terrace house?"
"You come here by car or motorcycle?"
"What car did you bought?"
"How much salary do you earn here?"
"Why you want to go back to Peninsula?"
"Why you still have no kids?"
What kind of questions are that? You brag on your perfect life but sorry I don't respect you at all. In fact, I looked down to your lack of communication skills. Your conversation topics and questions are shallow.
So I asked her about her updates, and as I expecting, she just want to show off her offspring.
We took some photos and she said like this,
"Bang, could you please take our photos."
"Dear, boleh kah my kids bergambar sekali?". So I took her kids on my lap.
She said,"Ambil gambar cantik2 ya bang, biar dia tengok kat rumah nanti dia jeles kita ada dua orang anak dia tak ada. Biar dia tunjuk pada husband dia, biar dia & husband dia jeles."
Memang aku rasa nak campak je anak kau dari peha aku!
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